Saturday, October 4, 2025

The Countercultural Struggle of Loving our Enemies: Homily for the Seventeenth Sunday After Pentecost & Second Sunday of Luke in the Orthodox Church

 


2 Cor.  6:16-7:1; Luke 6:31-36

 

We live in a time in which many people think that it is somehow virtuous to hate, condemn, and wish the very worst for people they consider their enemies for whatever reason.  Since every human person is a living icon of God, there is nothing more dangerous to our souls than to embrace such wickedness in our hearts. The Lord said, “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matt. 5:8) There is perhaps no greater test of the purity of our hearts than whether we respond with love and forgiveness to those who have wronged us, as He did to those who crucified Him, saying “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.” (Lk. 23:34)   As Orthodox Christians, our calling is nothing less than to embody the mercy of God from the very depths of our being. That sublime vocation goes well beyond being an outwardly religious or moral person who feels justified in determining who deserves our good will, care, and forgiveness.  As those who share in the life of God by grace as “partakers of the divine nature,” we must love all our neighbors as He has loved us. 

 

In today’s gospel reading, the Lord spoke words that have always been hard to hear: “But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He is kind to the ungrateful and the selfish.  Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”  In this passage from the gospel according to St. Luke, Christ does not rest content with calling His followers to limit their vengeance to “an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth,” even though that Old Testament principle had placed needed restraint on vengeance. (Matt. 5:38) He did not affirm the common attitude of the time, “Love your neighbor and hate your enemy,” an attitude that unfortunately remains with us today in so many ways, including religion, politics, and ethnicity.   (Matt. 5:43) Instead, the Savior calls His followers to be in communion with Him from the depths of our hearts to the point that we embody the divine mercy, loving our enemies like God, Who cares even for “the ungrateful and selfish.”  That means that He cares even for people like me and you.

 

To become a person so radiant with the love of Christ that we convey His love even to people we do not like and who do not like us obviously requires much more than the culturally accommodated religiosity that is all around us.  To love our enemies as He loves us requires our deep spiritual transformation and healing as living icons of God.  We must not, then, rest content with confessing Orthodox dogma, coming to Church, devoting ourselves to prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, and avoiding the most obvious forms of sin in our outward behavior.  These endeavors are all virtuous and we must not neglect or diminish them in any way.  We must remember, however, that they provide the foundation and structure of our life in Christ.  It is through them that we open ourselves to receive the strength that we need to take up the difficult struggle each day to reject the habits of thought, word, and deed that so easily lead us to treat our neighbors according to our passions and not according to the mercy of the Lord.  We must do the hard work of actually engaging the battle to live faithfully each day. If we do not and persist in refusing to love others as Christ has loved us, we will weaken ourselves spiritually to the point that we will find it simply impossible to love God, for “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ but hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.” (1Jn. 4:20)   

 

St. Silouan the Athonite provides good advice on how to grow in love for those who offend us:  

I beseech you, put this to the test.  When a man affronts you or brings dishonor on your head, or takes what is yours, or persecutes the Church, pray to the Lord, saying: “O Lord, we are all Thy creatures.  Have pity on Thy servants, and turn their hearts to repentance,” and you will be aware of grace in your soul.  To begin with constrain your heart to love enemies, and the Lord, seeing your good will, will help you in all things, and experience itself will show you the way.  But the man who thinks with malice of his enemies has not God’s love within him, and does not know God.[1]

 

            It would be hard to overstate how radically countercultural such an approach is in light of the incessant calls to grievance, vengeance, and division that bombard us.  So many people proudly proclaim today that to be true to ourselves means to celebrate and inflame our passions, especially when that leads to the perverse pleasure of exalting ourselves and demonizing others.  St. Paul’s plea to the confused Gentile Christians of Corinth is surely one that we need to hear: “Brethren, we are the temple of the living God; as God said, ‘I will live in them and move among them, and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.  Therefore come out from them, and be separate from them,’ says the Lord, ‘and touch nothing unclean; then I will welcome you, and I will be a father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.’” Note that the Apostle addresses Gentile converts who had fallen back into many forms of corruption as “the temple of the living God.”  They were not simply people living in a given time and place with a certain set of temptations and weaknesses but truly the Body of Christ by the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit.  He applies instructions from the Old Testament on the importance of God’s children separating themselves from worldly corruption to them as he admonishes them to embrace the calling to live faithfully as who they had become in Christ.

 

Like the confused, divided, and compromised Christians of Corinth, we must refuse to engage in popular cultural practices that so easily corrupt our faithfulness to the Lord as living members of His Body, the Church.  We are “the temple of the living God” in which all the divisions fueled by fear, resentment, and the refusal to forgive may be overcome.  Like the Corinthians, however, we so easily fall back into the old ways of sin when we refuse to keep a close watch on the thoughts of our hearts and to reject those that keep us from seeing anyone as a neighbor who bears God’s image just as we do. Obvious and subtle temptations are all around us to refuse to treat at least some of our neighbors as we would like them to treat us.  We may not worship in the pagan temples of Corinth, but the spiritual gravity is the same when we give ourselves to the false gods of our passions that blind us to what it means to live as "sons of the Most High; for He is kind to the ungrateful and the selfish.  Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.” 

 

Like it or not, the true state of our souls is revealed by how we treat those we find it hardest to love. That is why we must be on guard against obsessing about the failings of people who have wronged us and cultivating fear and anger toward those who are on the other side of any division or argument. We must remember that we are each “the chief of sinners” and share in the life of Christ by His grace, not according to our personal accomplishments or opinions.  As with the rest of the Christian life, the challenge is not to see and treat others in light of our passions but as God sees and treats us all according to His love.  That being the case, we must take up the struggle in thought, word, and deed each day of our lives to “cleanse ourselves from every defilement of body and spirit, and make holiness perfect in the fear of God.”

 



[1] Archimandrite Sophrony, Saint Silouan the Athonite, 377.